Casual sex can serve as a confidence booster, libido awakener and many other things.įor instance, after I broke up with a long-term boyfriend, I wasn’t remotely interested in sex for months. Sometimes, ‘no strings’ is exactly what we need. I’ve had some of the best sex of my life with one-night-stands.
Sex shouldn’t be assigned a value and neither should you. Unfortunately, society likes to tell us that sex must have an emotional component. When he left the next morning, I didn’t feel any shame.īut it’s taken me a long time to get to this point. He was attentive, sweet and we cuddled for a few hours afterwards. We were both consenting adults chasing an orgasm. Sometimes, shagging strangers is easier because it lifts our inhibitionsīut that didn’t mean we respected each other any less. This man (let’s call him Josh) was only in town for the weekend so we both knew there was no prospect of romance.
